How To Keep The Romance in a Long Distance Relationship
Long distance relationships can be difficult to hold on to but they are not impossible. It is interesting because many people who have never engaged in a long distance relationship will tell you that it is not worth your time but take it from someone who knows, that a long distance relationship that works out is a truly special connection because not everyone can carry them out.
Long distance relationships take a lot of time, communication, patience and understanding. Those who are in long distance relationships have a stronger connection than any other relationship because they do not allow the distance to separate them. Nevertheless, the distance can put a damper on romance but it does not have to. Here are some sure fire ways to keep the romance going:
- Anniversaries: Celebrating monthly anniversaries are a large milestone in a long distance relationship. Keep the date and “take your partner out”. Come up with a favorite meal and even a movie to watch. You can watch the movie while on Skype or the telephone while eating some take out. Knowing that you are eating the same food and watching the same movie while communicating with each other will keep the connection strong.
- Special Talents: You have to keep the romance alive by keeping the relationship exciting. If you have a talent, you should share it with your partner. Sometimes talking can become boring so your special talents can keep the relationship entertaining. You can dance, sing, play an instrument, teach a language or paint a picture.
- Surprises: Even though it may not be possible for a physical surprise, you can still come up with surprises to send in the mail. Everyone loves getting care packages and knowing that these gifts were once in your hands will make your loved one feel great. You can even have these surprises coincide with your monthly anniversary. You can create gifts like a photo album or a scrap book, you can buy them something to wear so they can feel you everyday like earrings or a tie or you can buy something naughty which will keep you two looking forward to your reunion.
- Playtime: For the adventurous adults, you can exchange naughty gifts and then show them off the next time you guys turn on the cameras. This sort of playful exchange will certainly make the connection between you two stronger. After a certain period of time, you start to forget about the sexual part of your relationship. Sex lingerie and boxers can create a sexual atmosphere that helps to replace a small part of your once very physical relationship.
Just because you are not currently together, it does not mean that your relationship has to cease to be romantic. There are always ways to create romance in the relationship whether it be sending flowers to her office or sending him a song you recorded dedicated to him. You should see each other every two to three months and speak everyday.
Guest bloger for this post is Sensei Allison Schleck of Senior Dating